TheComputerGremlin wrote:Now, I've had a single cat and cat pairs before, and I can definitely say there is a difference between them. My first cat was by herself her whole life, and she was fine, she had 4 people to love her. But when she passed away, we got a pair of cats and there was such a difference. They interacted (and had plenty of alone time too), and when one of the pair passed away, the other one's entire life was shattered. She is still alive and fine, but she hasn't been the same since the other one died. After having a pair of cats, my mom and I both said that we would never have a single cat again, since they seem so happy.
So when I moved out, I got a pair of cats. They both have individual personalities, they have both claimed one of the two humans as their pets, but they still spend time sleeping and grooming together. When one is locked up for "time out" (sadly one of the only ways to get through to her that she's been bad), the other sits dutifully outside the door waiting for her. Sure, they occasionally fight, but nothing serious or harmful, usually just chasing around.
However, I know that there is a difference between reptiles and mammals. My turtle doesn't want to be cuddled or played with or anything really but fed, so I don't worry about lavishing him with lots of love and affection. Don't get me wrong, I love him, but I don't know if he knows or cares what that is. So he's more of a show my affection by keeping him fed and his tank clean kind of thing. My cats, on the other hand, can't make it more than a few hours without coming over and reminding me that they need attention.
When I get a house (someday, hopefully soon!), my husband and I plan on getting probably 4 dogs to add to the family. I know dogs need more attention, but even I told my husband that if I got a dog, I would demand a pair, so that at the very least, they have one another. I'm not at the point of being a horder, just yet!
My friend had two cats named Oscar and Felix. They needed to be within 5 feet of each other or they would be pretty depressed. When they were six mouths old Oscar died from some weird skin disease. Felix was SUPER depressed. Then they go other cat Oreo. Oreo was a kitten. And the really don't get along. Felix, this is about a year later is still depressed.


