Hi everyone! My first post is prompted by some anxiety I've been having about Danger, my 5-year-old RES. My friend who gave Danger to me seems to have been mistaken about "his" gender, as the turtle started acting peculiarly about a month ago. She started frantically trying to escape the tank, eating less, kicking back legs, firm bulges in the area between her hind legs and tail (is this where eggs can be felt/seen?).
Realizing the likelihood that she's harboring unfertilized eggs, I set up a nesting box with 50/50 topsoil/sand and a container of water on the other side, with both basking and UVB lamps overhead. I planned to alternate her between her regular water tank and the nest container, but she is extremely frantic in the tank and very calm in the nest container, so I ended up keeping her in there most of the time. She spent some time on the dirt, mainly basking, and once or twice even dug her back legs in a bit. Lately, though, she avoids the dirt and just stays in the water area of the container all the time, not kicking at all and completely calm. I placed her back in her regular tank today and she immediately started wildly kicking her back legs in the rocks at the bottom of the water, her tail got huge like it was going to release something underneath but nothing came out. I know they're not supposed to lay in the water, so how does it make sense that she will kick in the water but not in the dirt in the nest?
I'm sort of starting to panic because her behavior seems counterintuitive and she is not laying... but as I said she only started to have the egg behavior about a month and a week ago. Am I worrying too early?
Thanks in advance!

