Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 7:34 pm
Welcome to the forum. What size tank do you have them in and how big are they (shell lengths of each not including the curve of the shell)?
Have you noticed any bullying by Alphalpha? Does he harass her in an effort to mate? Have you noticed any wounds/bite marks on the legs or neck?
Does she swim with her tail tucked in? To me, this indicates that something is bothering a turtle. Perhaps she's being stressed by being with the male.
If she won't eat (but she must be eating something if she's not losing weight), you might try taking the male out of the tank while you feed her so there's no competition for food.
"You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed." -Antoine de Saint Exupery-