So I've had my two RES for around 6 months now. When we first got them they were the same size and very small. Now 6 months later its clear that we have a male (long claws and a huge tail) and a female (short claws, tiny tale, and larger). However the female is atleast 1- 1.5" longer and wider than the male. Yet when we feed them rosey reds he pushes her around and he seems to get 8 of the 12 usually.
Is it normal for a smaller male to be the dominant one?


